Life is full of tasks and traditions, but how often do we stop to ask ourselves why we do them? Sometimes, we go through the motions without savoring the moments they create. What if we approached these routines with more intention and joy, rather than just doing them because we feel they have to be done?
Take, for example, putting up holiday decorations. Recently, when decorating our home for the holidays, my wife came to me with hesitation about setting up the nativity scene. “I’m not sure how you want it laid out,” she said. The thing is, I really enjoy setting up the scene. The act of placing each shepherd alongside the animals. Turning them this way and that so every figurine is overlooking the manger…it’s my personal quiet moment of tradition welcoming Christmas each year. It’s not just about the task itself—it’s about the feelings it evokes and the memories it brings back. Maybe this year, you weren’t feeling it, and that’s okay. It might have not been the right time to do it. But when you do feel ready, take a moment to enjoy the lights a little longer, to reflect on why you’re doing it, and to appreciate the work you’ve put into creating something meaningful.
Moving Forward with Intention
There’s a certain shift in the air—people seem ready to move on and focus on what’s ahead. But amid that momentum, it’s easy to lose sight of the joy in the present. Instead of rushing through life, find ways to genuinely feel good about what you’re doing. Whether it’s helping someone out or tackling a project, do it because it brings happiness, not just because it’s on the to-do list.
The Power of Inclusion and Shared Memories
One way to make ordinary moments extraordinary is by including others. When people feel heard and involved, they become part of the memory. Maybe things don’t go exactly as planned, but sometimes, those imperfect moments become the most special.
Coming home to the familiarity of traditions—whether it’s a favorite decoration, a shared meal, or a cozy light display—grounds us in what matters most. Share these moments with others, and you’ll find they not only deepen your connection but also remind you why these rituals hold meaning in the first place.
Finding Your Happy Place
Happiness isn’t just a fleeting feeling; it’s essential to our well-being. Studies show that feeling happy can have real health benefits, from reducing stress to boosting immunity. So, take the time to get to your happy place. Maybe it’s leaving the holiday lights up a little longer, or finding joy in the process of creating something beautiful.
Life is better when it’s shared and savored. Remember: it’s not about doing things perfectly, but about creating memories, embracing the moment, and feeling good about the journey.